Download the YJP, install it on your server, and install on your machine. Follow the directions for integrating it with a J2EE server ... it will give you a line of text for your java options that will look something like this (example is for linux, but there are win versions as well) (BTW, I add the port=10001 to the end to force it to use that tcp port so I can get it through a firewall):
-agentpath:/yourkit/yjp-9.5.3/bin/linux-x86-32/libyjpagent.so=disablestacktelemetry,disableexceptiontelemetry,builtinprobes=none,delay=10000,port=10001
Paste the line into a file and save the file in your notes program directory, then add a line to your server's notes.ini like this:
JavaOptionsFile=C:\Lotus\Domino\JavaOptionsFile.txt
Using the path to the file you created above. Restart your server, then start up YJP on your local machine, then connect to the server ... once connected, start the profiling and you be able to track memory usage, calls, objects, etc ....