1) It is my understand that DAOS absolutely removes the 64GB limit with regards to the attachments. You can go WELL beyond 64GB for the total logical size so long as the individual NSF stays under 64GB. Supposedly problems really start to occur with dbs above 32GB.
Also, though you are right that without much duplication you won't see much *overall* savings, you *will* see savings inside the NSF itself by storing all the attachments outside of it.
See this and the section on when to use DAOS: http://www-10.lotus.com/ldd/dominowiki.nsf/dx/daos-best-practices#When+A+Notes+Database+Should+Use+DAOS
It contains very large attachments.
In this case, it may not matter how many other NSF files hold the attachments in question. If they're large enough, the simple step of storing them outside the NSF can make common operations against that database much faster.
More Reading:
http://blog.nashcom.de/nashcomblog.nsf/dx/maximum-database-size-still-64gb-what-about-daos.htm?opendocument&comments
Deployment guide that has link to DAOS estimator that will give an idea of savings.
http://www-10.lotus.com/ldd/dominowiki.nsf/dx/DAOS_Deployment_Guide
Cautionary tale of db reaching 64BG:
http://lekkimworld.com/2011/05/18/a_tale_from_a_customer_reaching_and_exceeding_the_64_gb_limit.html
2) The PERC H310 is a horrible RAID card for this, sorry to say. Very light duty, no cache, no battery backup. Search Spiceworks for some discussions amongst admins about the H310. Plenty of people sent back servers with the H310 because it was way below expectations in the RAID department. Do not use for anything but very basic -- and slow -- RAID setups. Say, RAID 1 for the OS just to be safe.
Good news: you can upgrade to the H710 controller, which is a full-on RAID setup with cache, battery backup, etc. I'm running a Dell PowerEdge T320 with the H710 and an 8-drive OBR10 setup (one big RAID 10) for Domino (minus transaction logs) and it is fast. I've got several 1-million+ doc databases that are right at 10GB in size.
3) I'm assuming you have all of your NSFs with the latest Domino ODS and have already set "Compress database design", "Compress document data", and "Use LZ1 compression for attachments". If not, try that in the interim. You must do a full copy-style update of the NSFs after making these changes for the effect to be seen. If you have to update the ODS first, you will have to run two updates (one to get the new ODS and the second after enabling the compression settings). I saw 25-40% size drops in some databases after enabling these settings a few years ago.
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Best news: PERC H710, compression settings and DAOS will be cheaper than and superior to any enterprise SSD solution alone where you don't make those changes (do not even consider consumer SSDs for such a thing) -- and you really must do something about the 40GB databases anyway regardless of what you are storing them on.