I've used 'Inbound relay Enforcement'. In the Administrator Help, read: 'Specifying enforcement of inbound relay controls '
Inbound Relay Enforcement
Perform Anti-Relay enforcement for these connecting hosts: All connecting hosts
Exclude these connecting hosts from anti-relay checks: <IP Addresses enclosed in Brackets>
[10.10.10.1]
[10.10.11.2]
Exceptions for authenticated users: Allow all authenticated users to relay
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Although probably not needed, I'd also add the following to the Notes.ini:
SMTPAllHostsExternal=1