Thank you Richard and John for your reply,
on my admin PC I see on the replicator page the counter update 42.622 of 42.622 updates, and then the error Memory allocation request exceed 65,000 bytes.
The log.nsf now has 13.732 log documents regarding this one replication ending with:
28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: ...Skipping note in Destination list (UNID OF9A49991A:7BEF6480-ONC1257913:005562C6 SrcNote ID 0x1F94BE;DestNote ID 0x1A291E;Class 0x0001);
28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: ... (con't) Latest note is already in destination
28-04-2015 23:15:02 Updated Data Note - DestID 1698182, SrcID 1934586
28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: ...Skipping note in Destination list (UNID OF2AB10914:C3D76E69-ONC1257A0D:004A46FF SrcNote ID 0x1D84FA;DestNote ID 0x19E986;Class 0x0001);
28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: ... (con't) Latest note is already in destination
28-04-2015 23:15:02 Unable to replicate activities.nsf: Memory allocation request exceeded 65,000 bytes
28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: Replicator Debug Enabled
28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: Watching for ALL notes
log file snip:
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] 28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: ...Skipping note in Destination list (UNID OF2AB10914:C3D76E69-ONC1257A0D:004A46FF SrcNote ID 0x1D84FA;DestNote ID 0x19E986;Class 0x0001);
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] 28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: ... (con't) Latest note is already in destination
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] NoteOpenCallback: n=29, TotalNotes=42622, NotesToCopy=3
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] NoteOpenCallback: hNote=0, (source)NoteID=20C726, status=0x13B=Memory allocation request exceeded 65,000 bytes, hDestDB=22
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] NoteOpenCallback: n=30, TotalNotes=42622, NotesToCopy=3
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] NoteOpenCallback: hNote=0, (source)NoteID=1E1082, status=0x13B=Memory allocation request exceeded 65,000 bytes, hDestDB=22
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] StreamNotes: NSFDbGetNotes()->ERROR: 13B=Memory allocation request exceeded 65,000 bytes
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] StreamNotes: Requested 31, got 28
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] [08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] ReplicateNotefile: StreamNotes->0x13B=Memory allocation request exceeded 65,000 bytes, stop=1
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] 28-04-2015 23:15:02 Unable to replicate activities.nsf: Memory allocation request exceeded 65,000 bytes
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] [08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] ReplicateNotefile: ReplUpdateLog->0x13B=Memory allocation request exceeded 65,000 bytes
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] 28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: Replicator Debug Enabled
[08E0:0006-0AC8:wrepl] 28-04-2015 23:15:02 REPLICA: Watching for ALL notes
ODS = 52 on local and server.
Then performed a fixup on the database on the Domino server (Also 901 FP3).
28-04-2015 23:32:56 Warning: Fixup purged corrupt document UNID (48520C58:707E3E21:C1257824:002F6EAD) from D:\IBM\Domino\data\activities.nsf
28-04-2015 23:32:57 Document NT001E1082 in database D:\IBM\Domino\data\activities.nsf is damaged: Document has invalid structure
28-04-2015 23:32:57 Document (UNID OF48520C58:707E3E21-ONC1257824:002F6EAD) in database D:\IBM\Domino\data\activities.nsf has been deleted
28-04-2015 23:32:57 Warning: Fixup purged corrupt document UNID (DE8C4309:248615EB:C1257689:0041ECC9) from D:\IBM\Domino\data\activities.nsf
28-04-2015 23:32:57 Document NT0020C726 in database D:\IBM\Domino\data\activities.nsf is damaged: Document has invalid structure
28-04-2015 23:32:57 Document (UNID OFDE8C4309:248615EB-ONC1257689:0041ECC9) in database D:\IBM\Domino\data\activities.nsf has been deleted
After that the replication works fine!
Strange, the database replicated without any error with no replication formula, only gave the error with the formula enabled, never thought the error could be a corrupt document, I feel stupid now.....
Thank you for your help solving this problem!!